You should be a comfortable person to another, not an uncomfortable person. You should not be a difficult person to others. Your tongue should be such that it should give great solace to others. Your eyes should be such that it should give a very great benediction to others. When you look at people, people should feel that “Here is my security”. Not to enjoy others, but give enjoyment out of you. Enjoyment out of you is the way you should act and then the laws of the Divine work better.
Shri Mataji, 1982